There’s a myth that responsible planning means sacrificing joy. This myth often has people believing that if you budget, you’ll feel restricted. If you invest, you’ll have to wait forever. If you plan ahead, you’re not really living in the moment. But what if the...
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Being “rational” isn’t always the goal
If financial planning were just about logic, calculators would replace conversations. But as we all know, that’s not how life works. Your relationship with money isn’t built solely on maths; it’s built on meaning. And meaning is shaped by how we see the world, how we...
Guilt trips and fear traps
If you’ve ever said yes when you wanted to say no, put off a financial decision because it felt “too late,” or made a big purchase just to silence a little voice inside your head… you’re not alone. We all have similar stories. Guilt and fear are powerful motivators....
Blind spots we live with
FACT: It’s hard to see what we can’t see… One of the hardest truths to accept — in finance, relationships, and life — is that our thinking isn’t always as clear as we believe it is. We all have blind spots. Not because we’re foolish, but because we’re human. And, we...
Alignment over excess
When we talk about happiness with our family, friends and colleagues, it’s easy to fall into the trap of assuming that more is always better: more money, more options, more security, more stuff. But the truth is far gentler and far more powerful. Happiness doesn’t...
Short-term wins in long-term planning
When it comes to financial planning, some goals can take decades to come to fruition. Retirement. Paying off a bond. Funding education. Leaving a legacy. Long-term goals matter; they guide our decisions and give us direction. But here's the catch: they’re also really...
Flexible, practical, and resilient
Here’s how strong financial plans really work… It’s so easy to fall into the trap of talking about financial plans as if they’re written in stone, neatly laid out, precise, and permanent. But in reality, the best financial plans are anything but rigid. They’re...
Is boring the new best thing?
Want a better life? Be boring… Why?? Well, it can be argued that consistent, simple choices often lead to the most extraordinary outcomes! Here’s the thing: We don’t often celebrate the word “boring.” In a world that glorifies bold reinventions, dramatic success...
PTBS isn’t BS
It hardly bears repeating, but money is emotional! No matter how hard we try, we inevitably move from scanning spreadsheets to stressing about security, survival, self-worth, and status. So when something goes wrong, a job loss, a business failure, a debt spiral, or a...
A budget isn’t a cage – it’s a key
For many people, the word budget triggers an almost visceral reaction: restriction, rules, red ink, and the end of fun as you know it. It’s no wonder so many of us avoid it, procrastinate on it, or feel a twinge of shame every time it comes up. But what if we’ve been...










